Sex Tip: Sexual Resolutions for the New Year

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Yesterday I wrote about resolutions that you can use to create a more loving relationship. Today I would like to focus on one specific topic affecting all relationships: sexuality.

Take a look at your sex life with your partner. Is it everything that you want it to be? Is there some part that you think could use a little improvement? Here are a list of resolutions that you might make for your own sex life.

  1. I will take responsibility for my own sexual desire. It is important to know what things create desire in yourself. What turns you on? Do you think sexy thoughts about your partner to get in the mood? Do you like to read steamy novels or watch erotic films? Whatever it is that turns you on, do those things.
  2. I will add variety to our lovemaking. The first step to banishing boredom in the bedroom is to add variety. Novelty brings excitement. It can be something as simple as making love in a place other than your bed. You could try new positions, learn to give a sensual massage, or share your fantasies.
  3. I will communicate openly and honestly with my partner about sex. Sex is an area of our lives that makes us feel vulnerable. This is one of the reasons it may be hard to talk to your partner about sex. You don’t want to be rejected. The thing is, your partner can’t read your mind. If you don’t tell him what you like, how is he gonna know? It is better to talk openly about sex, than to hold it in and let resentment build.
  4. I am responsible for my own orgasm. Many of you think that it is your partner’s responsibility to bring you to orgasm. I believe that if you want an orgasm, have one. That may mean teaching your partner where and how to touch you. It may also mean stimulating yourself while having intercourse.

Anyway you look at it, great sex is within your reach. Take this time to make your sex life as great as you always dreamt it could be.


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Terri is author of The Passion Blog and helps singles and couples
learn the skills to create and maintain loving, passionate
relationships with an intense sexual connection through her
relationship coaching.

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