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Marriage Help: Is Someone Out to Steal Your Spouse?

Sweetheart Stealing

Have you ever been in love with someone else’s lover? Have you tried to lure him/her away from their boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, or spouse? This is much more common than we all realize. The famous 80’s song by Rick Springfield “Jesse’s Girl”, tells the story well, longing for your friend’s girl, wondering what he has that you don’t.

The International Sexuality Description Project was conducted in 53 countries. The psychologists polled 16,000 individuals in an attempt to understand this behavior. Psychologists call this behavior “mate poaching” and it is common across all countries and cultures. In fact, 20% of all long-term relationships started out this way.

This isn’t just about a short-term fling. You can seriously fall in love with another man’s wife. What do you do if this is the case? Do you tell the woman or do you respect the bounds of matrimony?

I think that the respectful thing to do would be to wait. If she is unhappily married, she will leave him eventually. The thing is, 62% of men and 40% of women say that they have attempted to lure away someone else’s partner.

What is your opinion on this? Do you think that it is okay to “steal someones sweetheart“? Does the end justify the means? Let me know what you think.

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Relationship Help: Feeling Close

Are you wondering why your lover feels so far away? Do you just not feel close any more? This happens at different times throughout the life of a relationship. First and foremost, this needs to be seen as a reminder, a wake-up call to get back on track. If you let this go on for too long, you will find yourself living as roommates, with no real intimacy between you.

Steps to Feel Close Again

Start Talking. I don’t mean daily chit chat. I mean real conversation about your hopes and dreams. Where do you want your life to go? Who are you now at this point in your life? What do you want to accomplish?
Spend Quality Time. Couples need to spend at least 10 hours per week connecting. I know that seems like a lot because everyone has jobs and kids, etc. BUT if you want a great marriage, find the time. Put the kids to bed early, get a babysitter for the night. Find some time for love.
Touch Your Sweetheart. Showing physical affection (holding hands, rubbing her back, etc) releases something in your body called oxytocin. Oxytocin is the bonding chemical. It makes you feel close to another person.

A healthy relationship needs to be nurtured. It needs to be given time and attention. When your relationship becomes your priority, just look at how great your life can be.

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