Sex Tips: You Need Sexual Variety, Here’s How to Get It
Variety is a very important part of your sexual relationship. Variety will keep your sex life from becoming boring and predictable. If you had your favorite meal everyday, you would get tired of that too.
It is a good idea to try new ideas, new positions, and new places when making love. Every guru around tells you to experiment and to be open sexually. That doesn’t mean that you have to buy sex toys or invite someone new into your bed. These things can be very far out of someones comfort zone.
Trying Something New
An easy way to bring variety into your love life is to make love in places other than your bed. Remember when you were young and you made-out, half-dressed on the couch? Try that again. Make love in every room of your home. Make love on the tumble dryer. Steam up the windows of your car. If you have children, you will need to use some creativity.
Another way to change things up is to buy a book of sexual positions. If you are too shy to go to the bookstore, there are many on-line stores selling these books. Find a few positions that look like fun. Choose a new one each time you make love. If you already have your favorite position, alternate with the new ones.
The third tip I have for you is to use a silk scarf or a man’s tie. Either one of these items can be used as a blindfold for your lover. Cover his eyes and explore his body. Let him tell you what feels good and how he likes to be touched.
Use your imagination and have fun!
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Rod Smith has taught family therapy and courses on related topics for various institutions, primarily The University of the Nations, in many locations around the world. His “YOU AND ME” newspaper column is widely enjoyed in South Africa where it has been published daily for almost to 7 years.
