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Working from Home: Why I Love It, Why You Will Too

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OK, so this doesn’t have much to do with marriage, but I think it will make you think.

Many people don’t know that all I do is work from home. It’s true: My only “job” now is to get up, walk into my den and start writing. Usually it’s an easy process.

But today, not so much.

Today I feel just a touch worse than a steaming, lumpy pile of dog defection.

That’s I love working from home.

I think I have that killer cold that’s all the rage in New York these days. I feel as weak as Chuck Norris is strong. The Green Goblins have invaded and they’ve taken over my nasal passages. I just arrived in Mucusville, population ME.

But here’s the cool thing: I didn’t have to work today. I could have taken the entire day off and not written a word. I didn’t have to shower and dress and put on a tie and coat to be whisked off to some cubicle by the morning mass transit.

Nope. In fact as I write this it is 1:03pm and I am still unshowered in my jammies—a pair of Snoopy sleeping pants covered with Z’s and a 3-XL black sweatshirt that keeps leaching down my arms, forcing me to pause in my typing to slide them back up.

Fuzzy bunny slippers adorn my sickly feet.

But here’s the thing: No matter what my career choice I would feel this way today. Most people have to either take a sick day or go in and feel awful. I just get stay home, sit here, surrounded by a pile of ping-pong ball sized wads of mucus laden used Kleenex, and just feel sorry for myself.

And I get to call this work.

Has anyone seen my blankie?


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Relationship Help: Questions You Should Ask

Questions healthy people discuss when new, significant relationships form

  1. Are we spiritually, financially, psychologically, and emotionally, sufficiently suited to each other?
  2. Do our long-held, individual, long-term, personal goals and personal dreams somewhat fit with each other?
  3. What do we each imagine is possible for us to achieve (service to the poor, overseas travel, learning foreign languages, learning new skills) within this relationship and potential marriage?
  4. How do we each perceive our individual and mutual responsibilities to our parents and extended families if we marry?
  5. Which of us is better with money? If we marry, how will we organize our money? Will we keep everything separate or will we pool all our resources? How will we decide what we buy, how we buy, and when we buy expensive, but necessary items needed by a new family? Which professional will we choose to help us with the wise use of our resources? [Do not enter a relationship with someone who is in excessive debt.]
  6. What does each of us think about religious observance? How will we decide on where and how we will worship?
  7. What help do you need from me in order that you may achieve all you have ever wanted to achieve with your life?

rodsmithtiny.jpgRod Smith has taught family therapy and courses on related topics for various institutions, primarily The University of the Nations, in many locations around the world. His “YOU AND ME” newspaper column is widely enjoyed in South Africa where it has been published daily for almost to 7 years.

So valued are Rod Smith’s methods of intervention that high-profile, highly conflicted families have flown him half the way around the world to assist in finding some manner of resolution to seemingly insurmountable dilemmas.

Rod writes the Difficult Relationship Blog and is available to help you with your own difficult relationship issues. You can reach Rod via email Rod@DifficultRelationships.com OR “RodeSmithMSMFT” on SKYPE.


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