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How to Get Better Sex More Often

Posted on November 4th, 2007 by Aaron from FullTiltMarriage.com

You want to cultivate a sex life which is both intensely satisfying as well as consistent (if not constant.) A husband who is a master of seduction knows how to turn one successful night of marital bliss into the next one. Here’s how to get that done.

Seducing your wife again tomorrow, in a couple days or even next week starts when you have just made love to her THIS time. That’s right, you set the stage for next time almost as soon as you close the deal this time.

Keep in mind: She wants to see you are the sweet, loving, romantic guy you are. She needs that. She needs to feel you desire her–and you’d rather be with her than any of the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders (or all of them, as the case may be.)

In order to accomplish that goal you need to cherish her–not just before, not just during, but afterwards as well. Here are some keys to making her feel like the special woman she is.

Cuddle and Nuzzle After

This is a hard one for those of you who go Annie comic x-eyes as soon as your little boys do their dirty work. If this is you, when the shuddering subsides, hold her, tell her how wonderful, beautiful and sexy she is, tell her you love her, you can’t wait for next time and tell her you just want to fall asleep holding her.

Otherwise hold her and tell her all of the above and then shut up. Gently stroking her face and hair, looking into her eyes, let her talk or just be quiet. Listen.

Remind Her in the Morning

You can kiss her deeply in the morning when she gets up, or you can leave her a romantic note. A nice touch is to send her a single rose at work the next day with the note “Last night was amazing, I can’t wait to do it again.”

Remind Her When you Get Home

Same routine as when you came home the day before. Kiss her deeply. Like you mean it.

Now she may want to make love to you again that night, but even if she doesn’t, she’s seeing herself as your lover again, not just as a partner in life and co-parent. She feels sexier. She feels desired and cherished.

Follow this little plan will keep her pilot light on so she is more interested in spontaneous sex in the future as well as putting away the kiddies for the evening again for a more drawn out love-making session.

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