Is My Sex Drive Normal?

Is Your Husband Normal?

The Question

I want sex a lot more than my husband does. What is wrong with him? Don’t men always want sex? Is it normal for a man to have a low sex drive?

The Answer

You probably have stereotypes of what men and women are like when it comes to anything, especially sex. Men want it all the time. Women never want sex, they only use it to get what they want, etc.

The truth is that our sex drive is determined by the hormone testosterone. We learned in school that boys have the hormone testosterone and girls have estrogen. The truth is that girls also have testosterone. When we grow up and become men and women, this hormone regulates sexual desire.

These stereotypes exist because the majority of men have a high level of testosterone in their bodies. 2/3 of all men have a very high sex drive. That leaves 1/3 of all men with moderate to low sexual desire. On the other hand, 2/3 of all women have a low level of testosterone in their bodies, resulting in low sexual desire. 1/3 of women have a very high sex drive.

As you can see, it is very easy to be paired up with someone with differing desire levels. Neither desire level is right nor wrong. Normal is simply what the majority is like. Whatever either one of you are, is normal for you. The goal is to find a compromise to please both partners.

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