Want to have mind-blowing sex with your wife tonight? Of course you do!
What if I told you there was a simple way to predictably seduce your wife tonight, have mind-blowing sex and set both of you up for a marriage filled with mutually satisfying, explosive sex for years to come?
Sounds like a dream, but you are about to find out it can be a reality.
There is a simple, seven step plan to seducing your wife tonight and preparing you both for more sex in the very near future. Here is the first step:
Plan Your Seduction
This may sound silly, but if you are like most men, you don’t spontaneously do the seductive things that will make you a winner in the bedroom tonight. Most of us tend to be thinking about sex many times each day (maybe all the time), but we don’t act on our thoughts until the kids are in bed, Leno has read this week’s “Headlines” and our wife just slipped out of those bunny slippers and into bed.
Trying to hit on her then is like trying to start a diesel in the arctic—it ain’t gonna turn over for ya.
Seducing your wife tonight means you need a plan to get her warmed up throughout the day. Don’t worry, it doesn’t involve doing the laundry or dusting, it just involves a little planning and a few well-timed, thoughtful gestures.
In planning your seduction, you need to make sure your wife is AVAILABLE to have mind-blowing sex with you tonight.
- Get Rid of the Kids
- Make sure she is available
- Plan a Day of Seduction
If the kids are an issue, use one of the strategies here to send them packing for the evening:
http://www.FullTiltMarriage.com/blog/?p=11
There are some times when you won’t be successful in seducing your wife, no matter what you do.
If she is working late and won’t be home until bed time, chances are you need to postpone. She’s going to come in exhausted and possibly pre-occupied and all she has been dreaming about for the last several hours was rest. If you want to prepare her for the next time when she will be available, offer her a foot massage when she gets home tonight without expecting anything in return. It will pay off for you later.
Another obvious time she is not available is when she is ill. If she’s on her period, ditto.
I have a theory (yet unproven but probably correct) that most if not all women are unseducable after spending a day with their mother. You can check this one out for yourself if you dare.
Remember my illustration about a diesel engine above? A woman needs to be “plugged in” in the morning and allowed to warm up all day. Once she is warmed up, you can ignite her passion.
Start seducing her in the morning, continue seduction throughout the day and evening then culminate it with prolonged love making that night.
But how do you seduce her all day? What ideas do you have to come up with? That’s what the rest of this is all about. I am going to tell you exactly what you need to do and say each step of the way to seduce your wife.
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on Mar 13th, 2008 at 3:16 pm
Does your wife not seem interested in sex anymore? Does she turn over and go to sleep? Does she reject your kisses/attempts? Do you really think she lost her passion for sex? Well you are wrong. You want sex nightly with your wife, follow the steps below, guaranteed to work, because I know, I am a wife of 19 years and was in that rut. If you’re not having sex then here it is married men the answers you’ve been wanting for years.
First and foremost:
Tell her that she WILL lose you because the lack of intimacy is driving you crazy. The threat of losing you will turn her switch back on. HOWEVER, after your rekindled passion, she will fall right back in the same rut, because she is not getting her attention.
Do each of these items weekly:
Plan an adventure, women love men who are CONSUMED with the thoughts of planning something with THEM. This could be a simple picnic dinner on the living room floor with take-out and candles and champagne or finding a special inexpensive restaurant that has something special about it: seating cross-legged on the floor, belly dancing, live music-dancing, unusual food like fondue/finger foods that you can feed each other, etc. Do not think that an expensive restaurant is a turn-on, it is the special EXPERIENCE that is the turn-on. A drive along the coast in the rain, bring an umbrella and champagne and caviar to eat in the car. Get creative with the adventure and keep it mixed up. Yes it takes time in your day, but the time you used to spend thinking about why your wife rejects you, you can spend on planning your adventures.
Write notes and place them in unexpected places, sometimes behind her pillow, in her brush drawer, in her coffee/tea cup, mix it up and keep them coming. The notes should be short ie ‘thinking about you babe’, ‘I am so lucky to have YOU’, ‘Can’t wait to get home to be with you’, etc.
Call her and send her emails that you are thinking about her and can’t wait to get home to be with her. These should be sexy phone calls/emails so make sure your door is closed or you delete copies of your emails on the server. These should be graphic about her body and what you what to do. They should be short calls/emails because if you linger it will become uncomfortable.
Buy her a small inexpensive gift, one single flower (her favorite) don’t buy her a ton of flowers, it is not the amount, it is the simple gesture (she may get mad if you spend too much of a bunch of flowers regularly, but how can she get mad at one single flower?) Pick a flower from your garden. Buy her one pair of undies or one pair of funky socks. Buy her two pieces of her favorite chocolate, one for her/one for you. Buy her her favorite coffee beans or tea or a current issue of her favorite magazine-wrap a ribbon around it. Buy her a tiny knickknack for the house or garden, something very inexpensive like a candle, candle holder, figurine, garden stake, under $10 so she won’t fret about the money.
Make a public expression of affection, a toast when her friends are around about how lucky you are, a quick kiss and squeeze her butt while waiting for a table at a restaurant (not a long kiss that may embarrass her), if she works, send her flowers, have an item that she’s been wanting delivered with a note that it is sent JUST BECAUSE you can’t stop thinking about her and how desirable she is.
Birthdays/Anniversaries/Valentine’s Day
Find out well-ahead of time what items she has been wanting and buy her one, but make sure that it is the exact item that she has talked about for a while now. She will have forgotten what items she has talked about but will be surprised that you remembered. Do not get her something that you like, she has different taste, stick to what she has told you she wants. Spend the money wrapping it in sheer fabric add a special attachment to the bow ie fresh flower, a charm, a bobble of some sort, and put it without saying anything in the living room on a special piece of furniture a week before the event so she has a week to wonder what it could be! Buy balloons, simple decorations, flower peddles and when she is out, decorate the bedroom with them and light a candle. Or if you are planning a bed and breakfast get away hide the decorations and decorate the room of the inn before she goes in.
While on Vacations
When she sees something she likes in a store while on vacation, secretly buy it and later while at dinner, ask her to give you her hand under the table and present the gift into her hand.
She is getting older and worries about her crow’s feet, remind her regularly that younger women or so ho-hum to you that you can’t believe how much more desirable she has gotten through the years. Younger women don’t do it for you – she does!
If you have kids, don’t let them argue/debate their mother, stop them and immediately expect them to apologize to mom. Teach respect of their mother. Get involved, call the kids daily after their school to see if they are doing homework or started their other responsibilities.
Lastly, whoever suggests that maybe YOU should express to her what irritates you about her, DON’T LISTEN EVER, there are things that irritates her about you too, but who cares, if you two are regularly intimate and desire each other, then who cares. She won’t be able to forget the things you told her and they will haunt her and give her self doubt.
Well, I’m all excited about the perfect husband listed above, that I can’t wait to show him how much he is loved and desired by ME! Good Luck.
on Nov 11th, 2008 at 2:58 am
Hmm. Good post.
on Nov 15th, 2008 at 9:37 am
Thanks for the great tips.
on Dec 27th, 2008 at 10:51 am
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on Apr 27th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
Get a new wife,…
or $50.
on Jul 26th, 2009 at 2:29 am
Planning the seduction is the #1 thing that all guys should do.
on Sep 10th, 2009 at 8:16 pm
Ok all this stuff sounds good and may work for the average woman but that stuff aint flying with MY wife. She HAS to be the most unreachable women ever(I know from banging my head aginst the wall). I haven’t had sex with my wife for over 10 months(she says 6) and it does’nt look like anytime soon either. I’ve tried all those things mentioned as well as some of my own ideas, and nothing. Should I give up, and try agiain???
on Sep 27th, 2009 at 6:10 pm
I think if this doesn’t work- you should try learning to love again. “The Love Dare” is a great 40 day commitment to learning to love like you did or thought you did. It’s a journey not to be taken lightly but your spouse will appreciate it and you don’t have to wait onother 10 months for intimate relationships.
on Oct 31st, 2009 at 9:34 am
After banging my head against the wall, over and over trying to seduce my wife, I realized that it was I who was trying too hard. I became frustrated! Sometimes you have to be unreachable. I did all the little gift ideas, the short little emails, a few posted notes, the touching and the kiss in the afternoon afternoon after I got home from work. One thing I didn’t do is make the aggressive moves. I just showed her that I was interested, but never put myself in a position to be available. After several weeks of this, I asked her out on a date. After the dinner, we went to a spot overlooking the city, with a bottle of wine. After a few (Styrofoam cups) of wine, I leaned over and passionately kissed her, gently and slowly. She became the aggressor……wow. Good ideas on this post. Remember, patience is the key, and if at first you don’t succeed, don’t give up, and don’t get frustrated. After an intimate encounter is achieved, continue what you are doing, and don’t stop. Be creative. I had fun doing it, and the results are great.
on Nov 7th, 2009 at 6:55 am
I do all these things for my wife.. I think sometimes I do too much, and she takes me for granted. We go months at a time without making love. She gets very angry most of the time when i ask to make love. She never wants for anything. She pursues things with a passion and relentlessness when she wants something. I just wish she would pursue our marriage like she does the materialistic things she gets. She treats her friends, and co-workers better than she does me. I am so frustrated and confused. If it weren’t for our kids there would not be any happiness in my life. I cook 90% of our dinners, I clean and do laundry, and i work what can be at times avery stressful job. She works a stressful job as well, but only has to relax when she gets home due to the fact I take care of the kids and house. I ask for dates with her, and she says yes but plans always get changed by her. I am very sad, depressed, and stressed the majority of the time. I need help in saving my marriage because I can’t possibly take much more of the neglect.
on Nov 18th, 2009 at 9:00 pm
It sounds like she was raised by a mother who did it all for her, no chores, etc, so she is simply being true to what she was raised by or in…make sense. If that is true, over time, she will begin to get a glimmer and feel a twinge of the truth there. How you tell her will have to be a very tender, perhaps crying thing…as she will initially deny it. Sometimes a terrible event in their life will wake them up temporarily, but often the heart has to be completely changed. Trust me, it ain’t easy. If you are religious, then pray. Try praying every hour of the day with all your heart and see what the heavens can do for you. If you don’t think the Creator wants a couple to be happy more than anything else, then think again. It all depends on where the two of you are. It’s not easy, but all you want is improvement. No one out there has the perfect marriage, just a growing, progressing one, or one that is in stagnation. Best of wishes. You will find the answers little by little and it will be worth the effort.
on Feb 10th, 2010 at 9:50 pm
I feel for you all marry men. I don’t know why us women are like that and sometimes I don’t even understand about myself too. I get exhausted of myself why I’m like that to my husband.
Lolita has great ideas, but the wife has to accept too. No matter what and how much you try to seduce and she’s like a dead zombie, there’s no point of doing those fun, sexy, and exotic activities. I know there are good men who does everything for their wife and those wives don’t deserve it. There are men who are players which love to f**K around with different women, drink, abusive, and is never serious about their family. It would be nice if it get switched around but we don’t know why?
I’m a woman and I totally agree with my husband. My husband once said the more you help your wife 90-95%, they take advantage of your helpfulness and disrespect you. Later on you end up wearing the dress. I’m not saying my marriage is perfect. My husband helps me out around the house too and especially bathing our children which I hated.
I don’t know about other women and for women who are wearing the pants, as for myself, I tried to have sex with my husband as much I can even I look bitchy or sound like a robot, I still have to give my body to him. I think it’s something about our hormones because I know I’m not as wet and horny when my husband and I were dating. Especially when he was so close to me, I was soaking so much that I had to change my underwear. I hated and it’s frustrating not being able to f**k your husband everyday and night forever. Even today I tell him you can be so close to me and I’m not even wet or feel horny.
Also, I don’t like when a husband is not able to have sex with his wife and later end up cheating. Love and marriage hurts when he decide to find sex somewhere else and it’s so hard to lure him back into your arms again. It’s like a dead funeral between you and him.
The most important is both spouses need to be open and have trust sharing their concerns. Ask your partner why he/she is behaving that way, is he/she still in love with you, did he/she find someone else who could perform better sex, and etc. Don’t make your partner escalate because later on you’ll end up having a nasty fight. I let my husband know that I’m not horny and I don’t know why. If I could find something to cure me and him, we would be f**king everyday and every minute. I like the orgasm but I hate to start the sex. I tell him the only time I want to have sex with him is when I start my period and that’s when my sex drive kicks in until two in the half weeks after that I’m back to an evil exhausting psycho bitch who doesn’t want to have sex. Sound funny but it’s true. I feel like Dr. Jeykll and Mr. Hyde.
It is frustrating. I sometime tell my husband that if a guy flirts with me or when I have sex dreams with a stranger, it feels romantic and horny. However, I don’t want to have a cheating heart because I love my hubby dearestly until death due us part. I’m not an angel but sometimes I fear that I might cheat on him. Praying to God that I will love my hubby and he’s the only man I will have intimacy with. If hubby wants to have an affair, he can go to hell (LOL).
I’m trying to cooperate, even though my horny hormones is almost ended which it’s sad. I’m trying to be sexy, seductive, talk nasty sex, touchy, watch prono with him, be slutty, and be creative as much as I can to be with him so I can have the desire f**king him. There are things I would tell him what I like such as gifts, flowers, get away weekend vacation, surprises, sexy massage, and etc.
Most important is the husband and wife must work together as a team. If marriage counseling doesn’t work then, I guess suffer with the marriage or end the marriage (not a good solution).
I recall my aunt used to said to me that she was a good wife who worked hard, cared her children, saved money, cook, clean, awesome housewife, and etc. At the end my aunty’s husband end up having an affair with different women. She doesn’t understand why her husband is not pleased with her because of her roles. I asked her have you ever tried to be a sexy and seductive wife because men love a woman who is slutty, sexy, and f**k him hard. She said no.
Sorry for the long suggestions. These are just my opinions.
Amanda
Happy Valentines!