How to Seduce Your Wife Tonight
Want to have mind-blowing sex with your wife tonight? Of course you do!
What if I told you there was a simple way to predictably seduce your wife tonight, have mind-blowing sex and set both of you up for a marriage filled with mutually satisfying, explosive sex for years to come?
Sounds like a dream, but you are about to find out it can be a reality.
There is a simple, seven step plan to seducing your wife tonight and preparing you both for more sex in the very near future. Here is the first step:
Plan Your Seduction
This may sound silly, but if you are like most men, you don’t spontaneously do the seductive things that will make you a winner in the bedroom tonight. Most of us tend to be thinking about sex many times each day (maybe all the time), but we don’t act on our thoughts until the kids are in bed, Leno has read this week’s “Headlines” and our wife just slipped out of those bunny slippers and into bed.
Trying to hit on her then is like trying to start a diesel in the arctic—it ain’t gonna turn over for ya.
Seducing your wife tonight means you need a plan to get her warmed up throughout the day. Don’t worry, it doesn’t involve doing the laundry or dusting, it just involves a little planning and a few well-timed, thoughtful gestures.
In planning your seduction, you need to make sure your wife is AVAILABLE to have mind-blowing sex with you tonight.
- Get Rid of the Kids
- Make sure she is available
- Plan a Day of Seduction
If the kids are an issue, use one of the strategies here to send them packing for the evening:
http://www.FullTiltMarriage.com/blog/?p=11
There are some times when you won’t be successful in seducing your wife, no matter what you do.
If she is working late and won’t be home until bed time, chances are you need to postpone. She’s going to come in exhausted and possibly pre-occupied and all she has been dreaming about for the last several hours was rest. If you want to prepare her for the next time when she will be available, offer her a foot massage when she gets home tonight without expecting anything in return. It will pay off for you later.
Another obvious time she is not available is when she is ill. If she’s on her period, ditto.
I have a theory (yet unproven but probably correct) that most if not all women are unseducable after spending a day with their mother. You can check this one out for yourself if you dare.
Remember my illustration about a diesel engine above? A woman needs to be “plugged in” in the morning and allowed to warm up all day. Once she is warmed up, you can ignite her passion.
Start seducing her in the morning, continue seduction throughout the day and evening then culminate it with prolonged love making that night.
But how do you seduce her all day? What ideas do you have to come up with? That’s what the rest of this is all about. I am going to tell you exactly what you need to do and say each step of the way to seduce your wife.
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Does your wife not seem interested in sex anymore? Does she turn over and go to sleep? Does she reject your kisses/attempts? Do you really think she lost her passion for sex? Well you are wrong. You want sex nightly with your wife, follow the steps below, guaranteed to work, because I know, I am a wife of 19 years and was in that rut. If you’re not having sex then here it is married men the answers you’ve been wanting for years.
First and foremost:
Tell her that she WILL lose you because the lack of intimacy is driving you crazy. The threat of losing you will turn her switch back on. HOWEVER, after your rekindled passion, she will fall right back in the same rut, because she is not getting her attention.
Do each of these items weekly:
Plan an adventure, women love men who are CONSUMED with the thoughts of planning something with THEM. This could be a simple picnic dinner on the living room floor with take-out and candles and champagne or finding a special inexpensive restaurant that has something special about it: seating cross-legged on the floor, belly dancing, live music-dancing, unusual food like fondue/finger foods that you can feed each other, etc. Do not think that an expensive restaurant is a turn-on, it is the special EXPERIENCE that is the turn-on. A drive along the coast in the rain, bring an umbrella and champagne and caviar to eat in the car. Get creative with the adventure and keep it mixed up. Yes it takes time in your day, but the time you used to spend thinking about why your wife rejects you, you can spend on planning your adventures.
Write notes and place them in unexpected places, sometimes behind her pillow, in her brush drawer, in her coffee/tea cup, mix it up and keep them coming. The notes should be short ie ‘thinking about you babe’, ‘I am so lucky to have YOU’, ‘Can’t wait to get home to be with you’, etc.
Call her and send her emails that you are thinking about her and can’t wait to get home to be with her. These should be sexy phone calls/emails so make sure your door is closed or you delete copies of your emails on the server. These should be graphic about her body and what you what to do. They should be short calls/emails because if you linger it will become uncomfortable.
Buy her a small inexpensive gift, one single flower (her favorite) don’t buy her a ton of flowers, it is not the amount, it is the simple gesture (she may get mad if you spend too much of a bunch of flowers regularly, but how can she get mad at one single flower?) Pick a flower from your garden. Buy her one pair of undies or one pair of funky socks. Buy her two pieces of her favorite chocolate, one for her/one for you. Buy her her favorite coffee beans or tea or a current issue of her favorite magazine-wrap a ribbon around it. Buy her a tiny knickknack for the house or garden, something very inexpensive like a candle, candle holder, figurine, garden stake, under $10 so she won’t fret about the money.
Make a public expression of affection, a toast when her friends are around about how lucky you are, a quick kiss and squeeze her butt while waiting for a table at a restaurant (not a long kiss that may embarrass her), if she works, send her flowers, have an item that she’s been wanting delivered with a note that it is sent JUST BECAUSE you can’t stop thinking about her and how desirable she is.
Birthdays/Anniversaries/Valentine’s Day
Find out well-ahead of time what items she has been wanting and buy her one, but make sure that it is the exact item that she has talked about for a while now. She will have forgotten what items she has talked about but will be surprised that you remembered. Do not get her something that you like, she has different taste, stick to what she has told you she wants. Spend the money wrapping it in sheer fabric add a special attachment to the bow ie fresh flower, a charm, a bobble of some sort, and put it without saying anything in the living room on a special piece of furniture a week before the event so she has a week to wonder what it could be! Buy balloons, simple decorations, flower peddles and when she is out, decorate the bedroom with them and light a candle. Or if you are planning a bed and breakfast get away hide the decorations and decorate the room of the inn before she goes in.
While on Vacations
When she sees something she likes in a store while on vacation, secretly buy it and later while at dinner, ask her to give you her hand under the table and present the gift into her hand.
She is getting older and worries about her crow’s feet, remind her regularly that younger women or so ho-hum to you that you can’t believe how much more desirable she has gotten through the years. Younger women don’t do it for you – she does!
If you have kids, don’t let them argue/debate their mother, stop them and immediately expect them to apologize to mom. Teach respect of their mother. Get involved, call the kids daily after their school to see if they are doing homework or started their other responsibilities.
Lastly, whoever suggests that maybe YOU should express to her what irritates you about her, DON’T LISTEN EVER, there are things that irritates her about you too, but who cares, if you two are regularly intimate and desire each other, then who cares. She won’t be able to forget the things you told her and they will haunt her and give her self doubt.
Well, I’m all excited about the perfect husband listed above, that I can’t wait to show him how much he is loved and desired by ME! Good Luck.
Hmm. Good post.
Thanks for the great tips.