You are on a mission: Seducing Your Wife Tonight. Here’s the next objective.
In my previous posts you learned to plan your seduction and some tips of starting your seduction in the morning. Now comes the next step: Seducing Her Throughout the Day.
The goal of this third step is to keep her thinking about having sex with you that night. The more she thinks about it and about you, the more ready and willing she will be when the time comes.
So how do you keep her thinking about sex all day?
If your wife works and has things she carries with her to work, put a note in. If she takes a briefcase, put a note in there. If she takes her lunch, ditto. A little note just saying “I’m thinking about you…” will help her remember just how wonderful you really are. Here are some ideas to get you started:
I’m Thinking About You…
I Love the Way Your Skin Feels
You Have the Most Amazing (Eyes, Mouth, Etc.)
You are Beautiful
I Can’t Wait until We Are Alone
I Miss You
Poetry from the Web (takes a little advance thought)
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If your wife doesn’t work outside the home, you can put notes in places she will be likely to find them after you go to work—in the pantry, her sock drawer, etc.
If you both have daytime responsibilities where you can get email, phone calls and/or text messages, you can use those to your advantage during the day.
Either by phone, email or text message, let her know you are thinking about her and specifically that you find her irresistible sexually. You need to let her know that in a way she feels is connected emotionally and not simply focused on sexual gratification for you.
Telling her you can’t wait to screw her brains out tonight might be an accurate description of how you feel, but for most women it would be the last thing they want to hear.
Instead, put your sexual desire for her into a romantic context. How can you do that? Either by tying it to something romantic in your shared past, coupling it with a romantic gesture or by making the focus on her pleasure, not yours. Here are some examples:
“I was thinking about that weekend we spent in the mountains and I am getting so excited I can barely keep my mind on work. I can’t wait to see you when I get home tonight.”
“Today my shirt smells like you—I guess it must have gotten that way when I kissed you good-bye—and all I want to do is be with you. I can barely keep my mind on work. I can’t wait to get home and see you tonight.”
“I can’t wait to get home, put the kids to bed and give you a back rub.”
Telling her you are thinking about her, desiring her, in a romantic way will flatter her and keep her thinking about having a romantic time with you later in the evening.
Now there is just one more message you need to give her: Tell her you don’t want her to worry about dinner because you are going to cook for her AND clean up the mess tonight. (Don’t worry, I won’t let you down. I’ve got a simple, painless way to cook for her, romance her and clean up.)
In the next post you’ll learn how to romance her once you get home.
Want to have some of the best sex of your marriage tonight? Of course you do!
One key to having great sex tonight is lost on most husbands. If you want to have great sex with your wife tonight, start in the morning.
In my previous article you learned to plan your seduction. Now comes the next step: Start Your Seduction in the Morning.
Women, at birth, have a special kind of radar installed. This special radar alerts them to what is likely coming so they can prepare to keep their home and children safe during times of crisis.
This is great on the Serengeti when lions are prowling, looking to eat her children, but sometimes it gets distracting here. After all, when was the last time you heard about a lion roaming the streets of St. Paul, eating children?
Still, women in general like to plan ahead mentally and be prepared.
At the same time, women are more holistic in their approach to sex. On a mental/emotional level most women see a strong connection between relationship and sex. In fact, many will say they don’t want to have sex, they want to “make love.” Sex is sometimes seen as animalistic and disconnected while making love is what happens when two people become deeply intimate with one another.
As a result of all these factors, most women need time to consider seduction well ahead of the “event” itself. They have so many things on their radar, they have to take time to get “in the mood for love.”
So if you want to have a frenzy of passion tonight, you better start this morning.
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But how do you start? Simple: Start small. Here are some simple ways to subtly make her start thinking about having sex tonight. Choose one or possibly two of the following.
I Made the Coffee
If she usually makes the coffee, get up and make it for her. This may sound like a little thing, but it might mean a lot to her.
Hugs and Nuzzles
Hug her and nuzzle her neck. Whisper in her ear how much you love the smell of her hair. Don’t touch any erogenous zones unless you know from experience that she enjoys rather than is annoyed by unannounced fondling.
You are…
…an amazing woman, my trophy wife, my walking wet dream, etc.
I’m proud…
…to have you as my wife, of the way you take care of us, of how smart you are, of how beautiful you are, etc.
I Love You
Look deeply into her eyes and tell her you love her.
You Look…
…amazing, beautiful, hot, sexy, just like you did when we got married, etc.
You have the best…
…eyes, lips, neck, legs, hands, feet, hair, hips, voice, etc.
One more tip you may need to take care of this morning: Leaving notes for her to find throughout the day. The details are in the next step: Seducing Her Throughout the Day.
